If you are looking to buy a vibrator, then you have a lot of options before you.There are several vibrators to desire from by a huge selection in each category.No matter what you’re searching for, there is something for you regardless of your first choice that you can be assured. 

The first types are starter vibrators. These are for the beginners.  It is important that you start out small and go from there.  If you go too big or too exotic, you might ruin your experience and be turned off to the idea of vibrators. 

Classic vibrators are generally straight shaped with a gradual tip at the end.On the bottom of the vibrator, is a rotate way control to regulate the speed of the vibrator.The idea is when you use inside going outside.  This style of vibrators is normally smaller in size than the newer versions on the market today.  They make great starters, and are easily concealed for your convenience and privacy.   

Subsequently there are clitoral vibrators.These are usually small and are used exclusively for the clitoris.  They have to be held in place and are great when moved around the clitoris for maximum stimulus.

Butterfly vibrators are intended for those persons who enjoy the free hands approach.  These types of vibrators come with a harness that will allow for you to keep your hands free.
The rabbit vibrator is one of the most popular and interesting vibrators on the market today.  They have been around for over a decade and have been evolving every since.The vibrator rabbit has a pleasurable feeling of massaging internal vaginal walls while clitoris is stimulating.  These come in all sizes and range with many different speeds.  The internal stimulator is made up of a phallus shaped vibrator that has internal rings.  These rings are lined with pearls or metal balls.These unlike rings turn in either one or both information.These balls within the ring pulse and bulge as they circle the ray, making a throbbing sensation that will make you never want to stop.

Remote control vibrators are an excellent means to mesmerize your partner with the power or your satisfaction.You can use these vibrators effectively up to range of 7.5 meters (21 feet).  This type of vibrator is for the adventurous couple or person. 

Adult Toys G-Spot vibrators designed to have angular tip to easily reach G-Spot of women.  The G-Spot is located over the pelvic bone and is difficult to get to.These special sex toy rabbit vibrator allow you to a particular point to reach every time you try to use it. 

In addition to all the foregoing is the strap on vibrators.These are enjoyable to use by female couples, as well as by heterosexual couples.These vibrators have a control that allows a person to wear the vibrator as but it were close to them. 
Several vibrators are just mad.others are meant as gifts and others use just for fun. 
They all have in common the fact that they still work for your pleasure.  Regardless of what they might resemble.

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Learn some natural advice for a powerful erotic massage in downtown Los Angeles.

The first suggestion I like to suggest to guys is to do a slower touch in doing erotic massage. Most guys touch too fast and most women do not find this that sexy .

Most females like a gentle touch to begin an erotic massage. Can you start to touch the hairs of her skin. Many guys also like a light touch and feel it very sexy.

One can start a erotic massage with touching with silk. I also use some fur to touch my lovers inner legs. Its a good suggestion to do a stimulating lower back massage and check the buttocks as most guys hold a lot of tightness in this area.

I use soft tapping on the sacrum part of the body that can be very stimulating. Teasing is a easy method to begin to stimulate the genitals.

Do some long moves up the inner legs and over the genitals and up to the head. A sensual touch over the anal area can be sexy for a lot of guys.

Remember that you should use a lot of oil on the total body and vulva during the erotic massage.

Stimulate the genitals and massage other areas and tease and come back for more teasing. Try blowing up the body, over the penis or pussy and up to the tits. Do not bow into the pussy.

Try opening the bum and blowing. Try licking on the toes. This can be very hot.

Ask your man to breathe more than normal. This can help building the sexual energy.

At this stage your lover is probably wanting some sexy massage in downtown Los Angeles.

More at flirting signs in a woman and does the g spot exist and my guide to cunnilingus

Maurice Tate is a qualifed erotic bodyworker who takes women to intense orgasmic places.

It is a sad fact that surveys about premature ejaculation show us that the average man in the USA comes in about 7 minutes in intercourse. So about 50% of men come in less time! Most women need at least 30 to 60 minutes of intercourse to really get in their orgasmic energy. Women have the potential to have waves and waves of orgasms that can go on for hours.

Why do men come so quick? I feel it is a habit they got when masturbating in the teems. I you ask men how long they take when they masturbate, most tell me about 5 minutes or less. Most men have masturbated thousands of times and some for more than once a day for years.

Our body learns energetic habits to come very quick. It can be hard to change habits that took years of practice. However you can with a little practice make a big difference.

I feel that many women nag and criticise men for them not taking them deep into their sexuality. This could be on a unconscious level for many. All women know deep down that belly can have amazing sexual experiences. Imaging you are a women. Would you not be pissed of at your man if he came too soon.

So what can you do about premature ejaculation. I am a qualified sexologist and I usually tell my clients to do some exercises at home. I also teach men to have orgasms without ejaculation or loss of energy.

Some things you can try when masturbating to help overocme premature ejaculation are as follows.

• Open our eyes when masturbating and making love. Become present in the connection with your partner and not just in your head or in a fantasy. The eyes connect you with your lover.
• Slow down your stimulation in masterbation or lovemaking. Most women like slow and deep in sex. Put your attention in your body and its energy.
• Breath deeper into your belly. Try this as it really helps move the energy in our body.
• Relax your buttocks and they get tight before you come. Check to see where you are tightening up and relax this area.
• Make sounds when you masterbate. This moves the energy out of the pelvic area. Your lover can also get off in the erotic energy transfer.

Try these steps when masturbating and the next time you make love. Make a commitment to change this old habit of coming too soon. I suggest to practice the above tips over the coming weeks. It is a good feeling when your lover tells you that you are a great lover.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist. He teaches men and women erotic masage and tantra. For amazing prostate orgasms see prostate pleasure guide and prostate massage

Have fun exploring the amazing potential of your sexuality.

Most relationships start pretty steamy and exciting. Everything is new, you’re getting to know a brand new person, the physical aspect is different, and the anticipation adds to the enjoyment if you take it a bit slow. However, once the relationship has been established, and you’ve been with the person for a while, the excitement tends to start to die down. You may find yourself going through the motions, doing the same things in the bedroom and elsewhere. You may one day suddenly realize that you’ve lost that spark, that things have almost become boring.

So what can you do to spark things up, to add some spice and zest back into your sex life? There are, of course, more than one thing you can do. The discussion could go on for quite a while, in fact! So let’s cover just one method, that is sure to give you plenty of ideas for creating some excitement and fun in your relationship – sex games for couples!

Sex games come in all shapes, sizes, types, colors and more. Card games, board games, sex positions, foreplay games, food games – and the list goes on! Sex itself has so many aspects and varieties that your options are limitless.

If you want to make your own sex games, you can do this with games you already have, or invent your own completely from scratch! For the first option, take a game you already own, this could be ordinary monopoly, scrabble, or whatever you wish, and simply make new rules for it. Add penalties, and rewards, that include sexy favors, stripping, truth and dare, or whatever seems fun and sexy to you and your partner. Part of the fun is personalizing the game and doing what you want with it. If you would rather make your own game from scratch, then write your own cards, use dice, use the alphabet for body parts (draw a letter and you have to do something to a body part that starts with it), or other creative ideas. Think sexy, think about what would turn you on or get you excited, and build a game around that.

Sex games that other people have created can be just as fun too – especially when you don’t know what exactly the whole game entails! There may be some surprising waiting in those cards, or with the roll of the dice, and that is also part of the whole fun. Eden Fantasys is a great source for sex games and you can likely find at least one that will appeal to you. With over 40 sexy games, from card games to board games, and more, you may get ideas just browsing through!

Role play or fantasy games may be your cup of tea, as well. Think of some of your fantasys – what might you like to try with your lover? Would you like to dress up as a maid, fireman, nurse? Would you like your partner to restrain you, seduce you, or be seduced? Blind folds, scarves, handcuffs, sexy food, costumes and other props may be very useful for these games.

Whichever type of games you choose to try, be creative and use your imagination. The game is all about you and your partner, and the intention is to not only add excitement, but bring you closer as well, so it is important that it be personal, and enjoyable for both of you.

For more sex games ideas, check out Michael Webb’s 100 Great Sex Games for Couples or visit Romantic Couples Games.com.

Most men and a lot of woman these days masturbate for sexual pleasure. These days there is a lot less taboos against masturbation. However, how many books have you seen lately about sex compared to any books about masturbation? And how often have you talked to your friends about masturbation?

Most teens tend to masturbate every day. Generally, they take 5 minutes or so and use high friction strokes. Most teenagers have some embarrassment about masturbation. They do not want their parents to find out about his aspect of their sexuality.

So they make no sounds of pleasure and hide the activity away. Usually there is some fantasy involved and very little connection to their emotions and heart. Unfortunately, the teen gets in a habitual habit of having an orgasm quickly.

I personally know all of the above because it is my own experience too.

Now, when the teen makes love for the first time, he continues the habits he has taught his body over hundreds of masturbation sessions. He comes in a few minutes, he had closed eyes, he uses high friction porn style of lovemaking and he makes no sounds at all. Unfortunately these habits persist as he gets older.

Sex survey after Survey shows that the average time of intercourse for men is about 7 minutes. The funny thing is that this figure is pretty much the same in every country surveyed form the USA, India to France.

Unfortunately, most women hate this style of lovemaking. I attended a Tantra workshop the other day and 20 women were asked to describe what type of lovemaking they enjoyed the most and 18 out of 20 described a style of slow, connected and deep.

Compare that style of lovemaking to the usual porn. Clearly, if a man comes in 7 minutes, most women are gong to feel unsatisfied. A boring, short sex life is one of the main reasons women have affairs.

As a sexologist, I talk to men about their sex life. One thing I like to ask is do they like their lovers to make sounds of pleasure and express the orgasmic energy by their voice. Just about every one says they love their lovers to be vocal and hate silent women as lovers.

I then ask them if they make sounds. If they do not, I say, why the F not and why they want something from their lover that they do not do themselves.

Usually, this early wanking practice taught them not to make sounds and they continued this practice to date. It can be a real challenge to break this pattern.

Another aspect that can be difficult for men to relearn is about emotional connection. Women love a man that connects with his eyes and they can feel his heart and love.

Now, most of us do not masturbate in front of a mirror with thoughts of self love. However, this practice could be of value. How about masturbating with an attitude of loving oneself instead of a porn type fantasy?

Another thing that women love is that a man is present. This means that the man is not in his head in a fantasy or being goal focused. Most women are very sensitive and can pick up on this straight away. So being present really just means being in your body, its pleasure and energy. When men do this, the women can feel the man more and this allows them to let go more.

Tantra looks at partner connection and being totally open. These skills can take time to learn as we are taught to be closed emotionally.

I hope you enjoyed these tips on how masturbation can transform your sex life.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. For more on this topioc visit masterbation techniques and tips and male and female masterbation.

Most men do not realize that they can have intense pleasurable experiences from self prostate massage leading to prostate orgasms. Generally, from my own personal experience, these types of orgasms are more intense, pleasurable and body shaking as compared to the normal ejaculation orgasms.

However it is a shame that most men carry some fears about anal touch and prostate stimulation. Many men seem to feel that they will become gay if they enjoy this type of stimulation. In fact, the anus has as many nerve endings as the head of the penis and it seems a great pity not to really explore this erotic potential of this part of a mans body.

Discovering the sexual potential of self prostate massage and stimulation can lead to a fuller development of mans sexuality and orgasmic power. One can learn to have prostate orgasms that go on for ages and that do not lead to ejaculation.

Many men also have a lot of tension in the anal area. Some men are very tight in the anus. This can lead to anal problems like constipation. Anal massage seems to also help in prostate problems.

The prostate is on the upper surface of the anus abut 1.5 to 2 inches in and you will tell when it is being touched by the intense sensation!

The good news is that you can explore self prostate massage orgasms and anal massage by yourself. The following are some general tips and you will learn from my site below, more explicit instructions.

• Having a bath before anal stimulation is a way of overcoming the clean issue.
• Try massaging the prostate externally from the perineum
• One can use vinyl gloves when massaging this area
• Lubrication is very important.
• Relaxation is a big key to discover pleasure in this area.
• Different size anal butt plugs are useful to relax the anus.

For more information on male sex toys visit Adult Sex Toy Information.

If you are with a lover, it is important you not to use anything that has touched the anus in a womans vulva area as this could cause infections. Also, follow safe sex guide lines for prostate and anal play.

Great sex is your birthright!

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. To improve your lovemaking and to really explore your sexuality which is a lot easier than you think, visit Sexual Ecstasy in 14 Days

Your lover is away and you want to try phone sex to keep the sexual tension high and the relationship sexy. Phone sex and dirty talking can be a real turn on and it can be very erotic. The following is some tips to make your next phone sex session very sexy.

The first tip is to make sure you will have at least 30 minutes of uninterrupted time. Turn of the mobile phone and lock the door!

The second  tip for some great phone sex is to describe everything in a lot of detail. Talk about all the senses, so include the smells, the sensations of touch and your feelings. The more vivid you make it the more your lover will feel it in their body.

For example, if you are describing a fantasy of being on a beach, describe the sounds of the surf and the sea gulls squawking. Describe the sand molding to your body and the heat of the sun on your naked body and how this is turning you on.

As you are not present with your lover, you need to be more erotic and hotter than usual. Describe some fantasies that you would never try in real life.

So be naughty and wild and you can’t go wrong.

Dirty talking phases can be used to really hot up the session. See my free newsletter for more explicit dirty talking phases. Tell your partner exactly what you are doing in a lot of detail. Introduce more graphic words as the energy hots up.

Tune into what your partner is saying and how they are breathing. You can tell how aroused they are just by listening. Make sure you tell your partner how turned on you are by making erotic sounds of pleasure. So really enjoy yourself and let your lover know this by your sounds and energy.

Phone sex can be a great way to stay close even though your lover is hundreds of miles away.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. To improve your lovemaking go to learn to flirt and to really prepare your lover for hos sex, see foreplay ideas and positions.

Great sex is your birthright!

Most men I know never spend much time massaging the vulva and do not know how to touch the G spot. For most women, a vulva massage is very erotic and many can have very deep experiences and even sexual healing from a good vulva massage.

The following has some tips on vulva massage. Most men touch much much to fast, so slow down and really feel the great sensations under your hands and fingers.

Massage the whole body first with long and slow strokes. I love to massage the breasts and do not forget the finges and toes.

Try blowing slowly up the body and over the genitals but do not blow in the vulva.

Take your time on the whole body massage before going near the genital area. 30 minutes is great.

When your partner is very aroused ask if you can massage her vulva or a nice word is magic garden or yoni. Very very slowly slide in a lubricated finger and curl it upward to feel for a ridged area in her vulva.

Ask her how she wants this spot to be touched. Make eye contact to support her from your heart. I suggest you take a lot of time from 30 minutes or longer to touch this area with no agenda.

If  she has a series or orgasms let her rest for a while with no stimulation and then ask if she wants more pleasure. She might move her hips to indicate this to you without you needing to ask.

Combining g spot touching with clit touching and alternating or both at once can be amazing for most women. I like to have one finger on the G stop and one curled to touch the clit.

Start with slow stimulation and them follow her energy and build up the intensity. Sometime some women like a finger on or in the anus for more pleasure in the sensual massage. The pleasure can get so intense that the women does not know what you are touching!!!

Deep emotions can be released during the erotic massage. Sometimes they can be directed at you. Just be present, in your heart energy and non reactive.

G stop stimulation can lead on to female ejaculation. Many women get an urge to urinate when they are very aroused by G spot stimulation in the yoni or vulva.

They resist this urge and block the ejaculation response. Sometimes they can get ejaculation responses going down their legs. Men can give negative feedback about their woman’s body fluids too. The ejaculation fluid can be cups for some women and has been tested in laboratories and the composition is not urine.

I have more in erotic massage and vulva massage.

If my lover wets the bed I ask to lie on it for the night. Taoist teaching say the the fluids are sacred and very good for your skin. Use safe sex guidelines if needed.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist and he takes individuals and couples to deep orgasmic places.

Women love a man when they know how to do the G Spot Orgasm Technique. It is very simple to learn. I find in amazing that many men do not know how to stimulate the g spot. It is easy to learn.

G Spot explanation

The G spot is located within the front wall of the vagina It is usually located half and inch from the entrance. In my experience  can vary with differing women. Many women can have intense orgasmic experiences from g spot stimulation. Some might need to wee before stimulation as massaging this area can cause them to want to go.

Locating the G spot | finding the G Spot

Make sure your women is aroused. Now to locate the g spot. Slowly slide your finger into the vulva and curl upwards. Use lubrication if needed. The g spot will feel slightly ridged in most women. It is usually one half of one inch inside the vulva in the upwards position on the wall.

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Hitting the g spot and stimulating the g spot

Now for the g spot orgasm technique. Pressure the g spot with your finger in different ways. Ask her what she likes. Use a come here motion and try side to side motions. Try hitting the g spot with light taps. When your women is very aroused the pressure on the g spot can re quite strong. Also alternate some stimulation on the clitoris. See clitoris massage. However do not focus on your partner having a clitoris orgasm but on stimulating her for something much deeper. Ask her what she likes!

Continue stimulation for up to 30 minutes or even 1 hour. I have gone on for hours. Touch her breasts and tell her how beautiful she is.

G Spot orgasms

These types of g spot orgasms are much deeper than clitoris orgasms. She can have 3 waves of intense g spot orgasms over a 1 hour session.

One can use the penis to hit the g spot in certain  tantric sex positions.  Usually this is doggy style where the penis angles up more than the missionary position.

Deep Spot

Some women are more sensitive in the areas around the cervix than the  g spot. Explore the vulva and see what she likes. Usually above the cervix is a very sensitive area.

Some women do not like G spot stimulation. At times healing needs too occur in this area as it can hold emotions from the past. Many women have never been touched with total presence.

Female Sex toys can be a good way of stimulating the g spot area.

Have Fun exploring this very erotic area.

Maurice Tate is a qualifed sexologist and he helps couples and women explore deeper aspects of their sexuality.

Are you making love the same way you have done for years?

Does your lover just love how you make love and really wants lots of sex?

I suggest if your  sex life is boring then one tip is to develop more of a partner connection for hotter sex. I find the more connected I am with my partner the more fulfilling sex is.

One question I ask my clients is…

How often do you orgasm with your eyes open?

One way of deepening the intimacy with your partner connection is by having your eyes open more times during sex.

This deepens sexual intimacy and  is very challenging for a lot of people who are not really connected during sex. Their bodies might connect but the connection of their spirit can be non existent.

However is you want to change your sex life you have to try different, somewhat fearful new behaviors.

Try opening your eyes and connecting with your partner. See if you can even have an orgasm when looking into your partners eyes! Its pretty hard to be unconnected with your eyes open looking at your lover.

One can kiss with eyes open and then move back a little to really look at your lover. Then move in for another kiss etc. Kissus interruptus!

The psychologist David Schnarch recommends a practice of sexual intimacy of  hugging to relaxed.

Stand balanced on our own two feet. Put your arms around your partner. Focus on yourself and relax right down. Really relax. Take minutes or longer in the practice. As you settle down you can find you  breath starts to go in time with each other and a connection develops.

I personally have found a few times that I can go in a energy orgasm in time with my lovers orgasms from this practice with no sex at all.

For more on how to improve your sex life see my free newsletters on Tantra and Yoni massage and Foreplay Ideas and Positions.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. He works with couples and individuals to explore altered sexual states and to deepen orgasms and pleasure during sex.