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Guys, do you know the feeling of coming too soon and your lover is left high and dry?

She turns to you and you see the disappointment in her eyes and you just have no energy left to do anything about it?

Do know this feeling?

Feelings you are not a real man, a feeling of failure and maybe a heavy dark feeling in your guts. Feeling that you are disappointed with yourself and feeling quite small. Maybe you feel you are worried that your lover might leave you for another man?

I think just about every man has experienced these feelings.

Fortunately there is a simple way of overcoming this issue and it is easier than you think.

Sex surveys show that more than 81% of women regularly achieve orgasms from oral sex? Compare this to the figure of only 25% achieving orgasm from intercourse.

So the solution is to learn to perform great oral sex and give your lover some great orgasms before you start intercourse. Even if you come too soon, your lover will be sexually satisfied, and not feel used.

Now, as a qualified sexologist, I talk to many women and most complain that their lovers are not skilled in cunnilingus techniques. I even have been told that some prefer cunnilingus over normal sexual intercourse.

Another personal observation is that when I became great at giving oral sex, I got a lot back in return. Now, most men that I know, tell me that they do not receive enough oral sex.

On of the keys to becoming a master of oral sex is the lead up. Most men jump into oral sex much too fast. The average time of foreplay in the USA is about 14 minutes. The result is most likely you will get less sex and less oral sex in return. There are lots of ways to explore new foreplay techniques and have a lot of fun too.

There are also certain body language signals your lover will show when she is read for cunnilingus that most men miss. And when she is ready it is much more likely she will be receptive to have cunnilingus orgasms.

I cover this and much more in my Free Cunnilingus Newsletter to help you master how to perform cunnilingus and give your girl a mind-blowing orgasms.

Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. He works with many men, women and couples to improve their sexuality and orgasmic depth. For more information, see Sexual Ecstasy in 14 Days